Broody and very Moody

I feel like Tink these days. Moody! I've been snapping at my poor hubby, start crying for nothing, just wana sleep and eat. NO I'm not pregnant, atleast that's not what the monitors say! But I think its all due to the upcoming events and the stress accompanying it.

First of all, our long awaited appointment with the fertility specialist is on Friday, finally! Together with that, I'm stressing about monthly interuptions making the possibility of the test being done very unlikely and then I would have to wait until March!!!!

Secondly, we are buying a new house, but we need our house to sell first. And as you know selling these days are not easy to do. I so want that new house!!!

So I think all off this is causing my moodswings. OH and on top off that my MP3 player stopped working so I know have to go to gym without it!!!! I already hate going to gym, anyway hopefully soon that would come to an end once the baby is on its way. Speaking of babies, Hubby and I have had a discussion the other day, about the safety of spankings when I'm pregnant. What's your opinion? Any mommies to be out there that's still getting punished? 

Ok I'm gonna be late for work if I dont get my butt of this couch. See ya later
Cheeky Cherry

Oh! Dont mind me....

Weekend always have some excitement in them, especially when you have visitors or the kids are home.

Have you ever been worried that a family member of friend may find you in a very vulnerable position?

I found this very captivating piece of writing on http://voiceinthecorner.wordpress.com/, Written by DJ Black. Be sure to check out his blog. Here is a short piece of the story.

Time passed and I must have completely zoned out, because the next thing I knew there was a knock at the door. I started and suddenly became alert to every sound. I desperately wanted to look round but my discipline held and my nose stayed firmly in the corner.
There were voices in the hall, David’s and a strange male voice.
“Its great to see you both.” I could tell David’s usual poise was under challenge for once. “Can you wait here a moment I just need to do something.”
“Sorry darling I am desperate for the loo.” I heard a woman’s voice.
“Nan just a minute.” David called from somewhere behind me.
The door opened and I knew that someone was standing behind me, the hurried breathing of the unwelcome guest stopped mid breath.
“Oh my god.” The woman gasped. “Sorry love, but where is the toilet?”
I dare not speak. I couldn't’t come to that. My face blazed hotly right to my ears. The wall remained solid against my flight and the ground refused to open. Did you know that you cannot actually die of embarrassment? Something I learnt in that instant.
I heard the woman flee in haste behind me and after a cupboard was opened a closed somewhere I finally heard her find the toilet. I stood transfixed. Had David let her come in to humiliate me? Should I run to our room?
“Get dressed.” David hissed somewhere behind me.
I ran for the bedroom. I would get dressed but it didn’t matter because I was not coming out until they had gone. I hastily pulled on my jeans and then went to listen at the door.
“Alec its so great to see you and Nannette, how long have you been back?” I heard David say.
Alec and Nannette could go and. I fumed.
“We’ve been back for about three weeks now. We stayed with Nan’s parents for Christmas. Who was that I heard running for cover as we came in?” This Alec asked.
“He’s got a new girl.” Nan’s voice joined the conversation. “Very striking form behind.”
“Ah you saw?” David replied.
“Oh yes.” Nan giggled. “Has someone been a naughty girl?”
“Oh shit, sorry Dave.” Alec moaned. Then added in a growl. “Nan he told you to wait.”
“I was desperate.” Nan protested. “Where is this girl? Can we meet her? Properly I mean.”
“Angela come out, its some old friends of mine.” David called.
“Don’t embarrass the kid.” Alec remonstrated.
Kid. I could have spat in indignation. But I realised I was behaving like one. I wished I wasn’t blushing so much but I steeled myself to face the music.

Why ladies should not swear (Or anyone for that matter!)

When it comes to ladies it was always believed that the outward appearance alone does not determine who the woman is. Looking like a lady is not being one. During the 1800’s to 1900’s the way she also acted also determined a true lady. Most ladies in that century did not act like pampered brats. Ladies did not swear and were polite. We as woman often forget to check our attitudes and demeanour in the twenty-first century because “times have changed”. So why do we swear then? But, I feel not to swear should not only be applicable to woman, it should apply to men also.

I think most of the time the reason for us swearing is that by using a swear word at that moment it is the only word that truly fits the situation. Or it feels like it is a good way to demonstrate the gravity of a situation. It adds a bit of attention to sentences (Which in my case too much, that I am finding out now!)
Some people may think it is “authentically” showing a lack of vocabulary. What we say shouldn’t be words that might be offensive to others. We shouldn’t have to use vulgar language, just to get a point across! And of course there is the fact that if you are a Christian and a child of God, then you are a Temple of God. Therefore you should be careful of what not only goes in that Temple, but what also comes out of that Temple.

I know swearing is swearing no matter which word you use, but I feel that there is some swearing that could be more offensive than others. (Although my new friend do not agree on this!) One thing that I am absolutely against, and I can honestly say that I am NEVER guilty of this, is using the name of the Lord in vain. “Thou shalt not take the name of the Lord thy God in vain, for the Lord will not hold him guiltless that taketh his name in vain.” (Exd 20:7) A lot of people say it without even realizing it. In my opinion this kind of swearing is much worse and a bigger sin. But on the other hand I will also agree that any swearing is wrong. The word “swearing” appears 4 times in 4 different verses in the Bible. (King James Version). God warns us about it, so I guess it is better not to swear at all!

You will probably wonder why I suddenly wrote about this subject on our blog. Well….I wrote this because it was actually given to me as punishment. I did say a specific word to a friend online for the second time, and he decided that was one time too many. Swearing is not a habit of mine and I will definitely try to avoid it…especially from now on!

Tantrumgirl

Good warmup to a nice weekend

Before I wish you a nice weekend, I wana tell you about my not so nice start to it. Well if you have a look to the right side of the screen you will see that my counter has been reset.

I am sitting very tenderly at the moment and will be even more tender tomorrow.

But as you know there is always a reason for ending up bend over the bed. And I suppose when you deliberately disobey then you can expect at least a thorough spanking.

Ok it is actually simple. Go to gym 3 times a week. I was warned earlier in the week. I've decided to not go so I knew what the result would be.

Deliberately disobeying, is not acceptable. So I ended up with a thorough spanking this morning before work and was told that we are not finish yet. So I'm sleeping on my stomach for the weekend. Why on earth do we do that to ourselves and our husbands? All I can think is that I hoped that he would not realise that I haven't gone or that he would just leave it. Being the committed HOH he is meant to be, he did what is expected of him.

Thank you Honey for loving me so much and thank you for not failing to do what you need to in order for me to reach my goals. I love you lots!

Ok so I hope your weekend would be less warmed up than mine, and I say that with the best of intentions! Enjoy your weekend!!

Cheeky Cherry

PS: William you were right! 5 seconds is too long! lol

Almost in trouble...and it wasn't me this time!

To my dear friend Cheeky Cherry. Hope you have also learned your lesson with our new friend W yesterday. I still can’t believe you did exactly the same thing as I did. Haven’t you learned from my writing Sis? Lucky for you you apologised and was forgiven when your HOH found out about it, but it makes me think…is that countup clock on our blog going to reach the double figures? Just sayin’

Tantrumgirl....now also trying to stay out of trouble!!