Those dreaded words

When you hear them they cause those butterflies in your stomach to act like they are on E! You get this mix feeling of anticipation, a vague remembrance of you previous engagement with that implements and the explicit tingle in a certain area of your anatomy.

They are dreaded words that causes every wife that's in a DD relationship's heart to skip a beat, and in that exact moment greater than the speed of light, send a signal to her brain, which causes these feelings described above.

Every couple has their own little list of dreaded and most feared words, but it does not matter what they are, they all have the same effect! And every word whether its a warning word or an instruction word, have the potential to lead to one specific thing.......A SPANKING!

So what is your words? See if you can ad to the list.....

* We are going to have a TALK
* That's it!
* Drop that ATTITUDE
* Your in TROUBLE young lady
* Upstairs NOW!
* Your asking for TROUBLE
* Did I not warn you?
* Go Choose an IMPLEMENT
* Did I ask you or did I TELL you?
*GET IN THE CAR!
* Come Here NOW!
* You have some EXPLAINING TO DO

Boy! just listing these make me nervous! lololol

Lets see if you can ad to these


Cheeky Cherry (currently trying to avoid these dreaded words)

Lost your way? Dont know the answer?

The other morning, when doing my bible study, This piece from Proverbs 2, really spoke to me. It came to me on a day and in the time that I struggle with plenty of questions, and when I'm sometimes almost hysterical, because I don't know what to do or say in a certain situation.

These verses stuck to me, and I felt the need to share it with you.


1My son, if you accept my words
and store up my commands within you,
2turning your ear to wisdom
and applying your heart to understanding,
3and if you call out for insight
and cry aloud for understanding,
4and if you look for it as for silver
and search for it as for hidden treasure,
5then you will understand the fear of the Lord
and find the knowledge of God.
6For the Lord gives wisdom,
and from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.
7He holds victory in store for the upright,
he is a shield to those whose walk is blameless,
8for he guards the course of the just
and protects the way of his faithful ones.
9Then you will understand what is right and just
and fair—every good path.
10For wisdom will enter your heart,
and knowledge will be pleasant to your soul.
11Discretion will protect you,
and understanding will guard you.

A crazy week!

Okay I know I should have written this a week ago but here it is at long last. This has been one crazy week! One thing I can say though, is Mr Right has a lot of guts. Or, shall I say pretended to be very brave. Friday a week ago we met for the first time in person…at my work place of course, because I mean…that would be safe wouldn’t it? It all started very well, we chatted like we have known each other forever….and before I knew what was happening I was otk! Now, more than a week after that he admitted that he was also very nervous about taking me otk! But he was determent…he wanted to show me who was the boss! I have to say, that was quite an experience, having my first ever spanking at my work place!! Luckily nobody saw us as there were not many colleagues at the office that day!!

By now you all know that during last week my friend Cheeky Cherry and I really had bumped heads. And it is true, Mr Right jumped in and saved us from…uhm…if we carried on…a spanking….we were really acting like two little brats!

But to be serious…I really had a great weekend with Mr Right. He is such a wonderful God fearing man and he is proud of that, I am looking up to him, I respect him, he is my mentor, my idol and the man I will be proud to call my husband one day! I really am in love!!!

A changed Tantrumgirl....or not?

And then he said "Stop it!"

This has been one crazy week! Its been full of love, laughter, hard work and Cat fights! lolol
Why is it that two girls can have a normal, loving, friendship without any problems, but when Iguys start entering the scene, all that goes out the back door?

Ok now don't misinterpret this statement. I really like Mr right! I think he is the best thing that ever happened to my friend, and he did not do anything to cause this turmoil, but for some reason Tantrumgirl and I have been bumping heads like to school girls this whole week!

So last night we reached the peak of our bickering. Going back in our conversation I now realize how stupid it actually was!lololol. Anyway to come to my story this morning and the reason for my heading..... So there we were fighting with words in Capitals and they keep on getting bigger and bolder (we were on IM), Mr right on the other window, stuck in the middle of to hysterical woman! hehehehee

Poor man, he talked, he try to calm us down, he try to explain, but nothing worked! We to hellcats just ignored him and later both of us where in tears! So eventually after probably getting tired of our nonsense, this sentence popped up from his IM window..."you are behaving like to little naughty girls, stop this right now!" and not long after "you are both asking for spanking" lololol

Even through the elevated emotions and with tears streaming down my cheeks, I could not help to smile! lololol
He's not even my HOH, but boy that did stop us, and let us calm down a bit. lololol
I do suspect that this was not the first time he would have to step in, but I do know that what he told us after that is very true and I hope that he will in future remind us of that again.

He said that fighting is not worth it. So true! Tantrumgirl, I love you with all my heart, you truly are my twin. We are both very stubborn and very emotional, but I would not want to have any other take your place! So yes these men is the very point our lives revolve around, but they are also our support and our comforters and occasionally we need them to set us straight and remind us of the impotent things in our lives.

Love

Cheeky Cherry

Best friends

To my Friend Tantrumgirl, my Sister, my best friend and my confidant.

Best Friend

Through tears and fights,
Through smiles,
I knew everything
Would be alright,
Through love and hate,
Through betrayal and debate,
For you I would always have faith,
Being your sister as well as your
Best friend I knew
This friendship wouldn't end,
By your side I would always stand
And you'll stand by mine too,
Because that’s what best friends do,
So no matter what happens with us In life,
Through all of the wrongs
And all of the rights,
I’m here for you to be a best friend that’s true,
Cause I love you and that’s what Best friends do.

Best Friend by Tinynisha A. Bush

Breaking News!

This is a urgent report! Coming to you from The Wildones!
Tantrumgirl is in love!!! I repeat Tantrumgirl is in love!!
Innocent by standers report that the suspect first made contact with Tantrumgirl, after her profile has been interred onto a local dating site by her dearest friend, me.
Its been reported that a considerable amount of correspondence has been exchanged between them to such an agree that the contagious virus L.O.V.E has been uncontainable.
The ruthless investigators of tamed and untamed, has gone to considerable lenghts to obtain information relating to this case. Its been discovered that the suspect, who we believe is a vanilla, has unexpectedly roasted the rump of the poor victim to such an agree that he has left his mark in her heart (and else where for that matter). The attack seems to have taken place in the victems own office!
The victim has been classified as untreatable too this virus and docters says that she is constantly rambling on about the attack. The suspect who admit that he committed such an act also admitted that future actions might have to be taken to the same degree agian to avoid the victim's actions to become uncontrollable and he claims to be the only one capable of doing that.
Tantrumgirl, reported to investigators that the suspect is ruthless and unstoppable and that its been suspected that his high intelligence is the cause of his capability to adapt this new persona so quickly.
Friends and Family of Tantrumgirl appears amazed by the change in the victim's actions since the incident.
We urge all readers to keep in tough as an report by the victim herself is expected soon.
Reporting to you from Tamed and Untamed headquarters

Cheeky Cherry