500 Times too much thank you!

Yip, I’m the guilty one here, got the line writing for being “rude” and “insolent” to W. 500 times! I had begged him all day to “reduce” my sentence, and guess what? He said after a while: "I am in a good mood today. So you can reduce it to 499!" LOL But I was a good girl and did the 500 lines. During my work time, but it does not seem that he has a problem with that! LOL!

Well, I'll have to admit, I did go through yesterday without being insolent again. But being the BRAT that I am, there is no guarantee for how long...

Tantrumgirl

500 times less likely to do it again

Don't you just hate when that happens!!! lol

Lesson hopefully learned - Stop talking when you were already in trouble

and don't tell him then that he is silly.

The art of mental restraint

Given that I haven’t written a serious post in a while, I’ll share with you my thoughts on an often debated topic. Mental restraints or more known in CDD as submission during a punishment session. Please note I said punishment session as I do not wish to engage in a discussion about BDSM/S&M or any erotic form of discipline and is referring to a deferent form of restraint.
Being in a CDD marriage, its required of me as the wife to submit to my punishment, to except that what I have coming is because of my direct choice to disobey or be defiant and being a Christian wife that has agreed to an CDD marriage I want to submit and take my punishment with a proper attitude to show my appreciation and respect towards my husband’s authority. (Ok now I probably said some words that would make some readers raise an eyebrow). After all behind every good bottom lies a firm hand.

So what do I mean with these words? Well I’m talking about voluntary submission to what you know is going to be very uncomfortable and hurt a lot, staying in position while you could very easily choose not to. No reaching back, no jumping up and down, no doing the ouch dance, no kicking, no turning and wiggling. Staying in the desired or commanded position out of your own free will.

Yes I know, some time or later in the session it gets unbearable, you just can’t stay in place, even when your mind don’t want to, your body screams at you and you end up breaking position. But we go back to that position without being told to or sometimes we need a little persuasion, but at the end of your fruitless attempt to run, you do go back into position to take more. Now that is what I call submission!

That, my dear reader, is because of our level of mental restraints. Mastering the art of mental restraint lays in the decision to go back, the submission and the acknowledgement of his authority. What authority you ask? Well what makes you stay there? What makes you go back to that position? The commanding tone in his voice when he warns you, the sudden recall of a similar situation and the outcome of that situation, the foresight of the connection between the implement and your thighs, which is far worse that your present situation or the sensing of a secondary dreaded implement and off course the sudden desire that he created with you to end it as soon as possible (after your true remorse off course!).

I don’t actually know if it was a discussion on our group, deference in position preference between me and Tantrumgirl or just a thought or warning generated by my internal disaster management centre that occurred during my last spanking, but this phenomenon of mental restraints fascinated me. Personally I think once a woman choose to restrain themselves or manage to endure her spanking she has mastered or reached an extra level of submission. (Please it is not my intent to insult or disrespect any woman or HOH’s preferences or capabilities).

There’s a saying, nothing says love better than a good spanking, but personally I think nothing says love better than the choice to submit to that spanking and the level of mental restraint she have accomplished. So HOH’s next time you have to warn her to stay in place, consider that she has stayed in place all along and is really trying to not break position. So rather than using your normal methods of motivation try telling her that you admire her attempt and would reward her afterwards for her capability to reach a higher level of submission. Now ladies this is not a get out of jail card to go wild and start kicking and wiggling after the first third of your punishment session! It’s merely an invitation to explore the art of mental restraint.

Cheeky Cherry

To a special friend

So where are we in our fairytale?

Hi everyone, yes, yes, I know it’s been like forever since the Wild ones have written something. Truth is, it’s not that there hasn’t been anything to write about, in fact there was too much! It’s been one crazy ride! So what have we been up too? Well let’s see if I can give you the short version…….

Once upon I time, that’s how all stories starts (by the way this book is a fairytale but currently we are somewhere in the middle, just past the villains) there was two happy fairies, a red head living in her perfect world and the blondie, creating her perfect world. Anyway, the red head’s world tumbled down when she was informed of her parent’s troubled marriage and within a matter of weeks her happy little world turned into a rollercoaster ride that was quickly derailing. But like in all fairy tales her hero on his white horse (well with the paddle in his hand) rescued her from losing her wings and took her back to the fairy hollow with love and support and lots of ……. Ughm, ok so things are still not totally back to normal but with lots of prayers and support the elders seems to be sort of ok.

But while all this is going on our other fairy’s hero turned into a nasty Captain hook-like villain smashing her crystal pure heart into a million little pieces (Guess who had to gather all the lily leaves to dry up the mass of salty water before it flooded our hollow!).
Now that I think back on all our troubles the last couple of months, it actually starts making sense. Does not every fairy tale have some nasty happenings somewhere in the middle of the story, before the Hero comes to rescue the damsels in distress and create the perfect end to a perfect fairytale? I Guess we are somewhere in the middle of our book then? Goodness I really hope so!! Lololol
So what’s next in our story? Well the red head fairy (The Cheeky one) and her Hero will hopefully soon be blessed with a little pixie (They have an appointment with a nice magician on the 22nd of January) and our feisty blond fiery, who seems to have found her lust for live again, is sitting on the highest daisy in the hollow through her bamboo binoculars at an intriguing suitor over the river in the land of dreams (well that’s what the snail mail tells me)
To be continued………..
Happy New Year to all our readers, friends and lovers! May this be one perfect 2010 story!
PS: Just a footnote…… Cheeky Cherry had a warm throbbing bottom entry into the New Year. So much for ending the bad year on a good leaf.

Love
Cheeky Cherry and Tantrumgirl